Ruby in the Sky

So, I’m currently flying solo in my domo. I’ve been alone before, but being alone for days and days is a different story. But so far, it’s been pretty good! So far it’s taught me a couple of things, that I want to share with you today.

#1: Responsibility can be really calming.

Yes, I know that sounds counter-intuitive, but I find that having stuff to do as part of your daily routine (emptying the dishwasher, filling the dishwasher, opening windows to get cold air in, closing windows to keep warm air out, and so on) is really calming, almost meditative. The things I always hate to do when everyone is home, I now take pleasure in. Which could also be an alarming sign about my mental age. But you know, let’s go for the positive outlook.

#2: Food.

Food is kind of essential for human survival, and most of us will know the basics, like how to cook rice or pasta. However, when you’re alone, you get to experiment in the kitchen. If you’re going to be risky in the kitchen, it’s better not to put anyone else at risk – and if it turns out alright, you get to surprise your housemates the next time it’s your turn to make dinner! Plus, if being alone gets boring: bake delicious goods. And eat them all (not in one sitting).

#3: Do it your way.

Whatever it is you like to do or at least give a shot, without anyone else around you are free to do it. You can listen to music while peeing. You can eat in front of the tv. Or in bed. Or in the bathtub. Whatever you like, you can do it. Because no one will know. Small disclaimer: don’t burn your house down. No one likes to come home to a heap of ashes.

#4: Keep up your social skills.

This one is not exactly positive, but it is important: keep up your social skills. Try to see other people at least once a day, even if it’s just a cashier at the supermarket. Actually, this is always a good plan. Have human contact with people outside your own house at least once a day. It’ll bring you a lot of good stuff.

That’s what I’ve found so far. Being alone can be difficult, but like anything else, it largely depends on what you make of it. Try to see the bright side, and you might be pleasantly surprised!

What’s something you like to do when you’re alone?

Love, Ruby